If you are a loving woman and love a hard-headed strong man you must be tough too and not take it personally. Often very tough men do not need a shoulder to cry on and therefore you should stop probing for weakness where it does not exist and start understand the male animal you seek to be with.
Not all men have weakness inside, somewhere hidden from view. There are strong men who indeed have no weakness at all, it simply does not exist and trying to find it or coax out a sign of empathy or fear or even a gap in their strength of character will leave you searching forever.
Not all men have those secret weaknesses. Love a man for who he is, not who you want him to be. If you are looking for a man who has female emotions or a least some sign of weakness or vulnerabilities you will find them, they are out there, perhaps you would like a man like that better. Maybe not, but you may need to study both types of animals and decide what you prefer for a long-term relationship and go from there.
It is purely a matter of deciding if you are trying to change the wild animal or study him. Perhaps you can enjoy the tough man or real man for what he is rather than trying to turn him into a soft man. Because you may not like the softer side if he does change, you might be better off on finding a man with a soft weak side and exploiting that instead. It is not easy to build a relationship with a Hard Headed Man; so, good luck indeed.
Not all men have weakness inside, somewhere hidden from view. There are strong men who indeed have no weakness at all, it simply does not exist and trying to find it or coax out a sign of empathy or fear or even a gap in their strength of character will leave you searching forever.
Not all men have those secret weaknesses. Love a man for who he is, not who you want him to be. If you are looking for a man who has female emotions or a least some sign of weakness or vulnerabilities you will find them, they are out there, perhaps you would like a man like that better. Maybe not, but you may need to study both types of animals and decide what you prefer for a long-term relationship and go from there.
It is purely a matter of deciding if you are trying to change the wild animal or study him. Perhaps you can enjoy the tough man or real man for what he is rather than trying to turn him into a soft man. Because you may not like the softer side if he does change, you might be better off on finding a man with a soft weak side and exploiting that instead. It is not easy to build a relationship with a Hard Headed Man; so, good luck indeed.
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