Friday, April 20, 2012

Women's Interests, Relationship Building and the Hard Headed Man

If you are a loving woman and love a hard-headed strong man you must be tough too and not take it personally. Often very tough men do not need a shoulder to cry on and therefore you should stop probing for weakness where it does not exist and start understand the male animal you seek to be with.

Not all men have weakness inside, somewhere hidden from view. There are strong men who indeed have no weakness at all, it simply does not exist and trying to find it or coax out a sign of empathy or fear or even a gap in their strength of character will leave you searching forever.

Not all men have those secret weaknesses. Love a man for who he is, not who you want him to be. If you are looking for a man who has female emotions or a least some sign of weakness or vulnerabilities you will find them, they are out there, perhaps you would like a man like that better. Maybe not, but you may need to study both types of animals and decide what you prefer for a long-term relationship and go from there.

It is purely a matter of deciding if you are trying to change the wild animal or study him. Perhaps you can enjoy the tough man or real man for what he is rather than trying to turn him into a soft man. Because you may not like the softer side if he does change, you might be better off on finding a man with a soft weak side and exploiting that instead. It is not easy to build a relationship with a Hard Headed Man; so, good luck indeed.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Become a Blonde or a Red Head for the Week?

Not long ago, an acquaintance of mine had dyed her hair blonde, at first I didn't recognize her, I said hi, in passing and smiled, as the person I was looking at seemed very nice, but I kept walking by after that. Later I realized it was an acquaintance of mine and I didn't recognize them. They must've gotten a kick out of that one, and it must be very interesting to change her hair color and your appearance so you don't look the same, it's almost like walking around being someone else for a day.

Many people would like to see what it's like to be someone else for just a day, and this can be done rather easily by getting a makeover, or changing your hair color for a week. You might be utterly surprised by how you're treated differently by different types of people. If you change your hair color to blonde you may notice that different men look at you, or people treat you slightly differently when you go out. Same thing if you turn your hair red for a week.

What if you are a blonde and you dye your hair black it will attract different kinds of men of different after ethnic decent, who all of a sudden look at you, perhaps they didn't look at you before? Will other people ignore you? It's a great study in human psychology, and something very fun to do. To observe how people interact differently based on who they perceive you to be.

Because even though you are the same person inside what you look like on the outside does matter to people. Perhaps that's proves we are all little prejudiced, or a good number of people are, whether they like to admit it or not, or if they pretend to be politically correct in every turn. I think you'll enjoy this experiment and I wish you all the best luck. Please consider all this.